I think 3 hours is just too short too. I want photos of me getting ready, my Catholic ceremony (which is about an hour), then part of the reception.
My ceremony will be at 5pm. I figure I will be done getting ready by 4:30 to be on the safe side. So that means I need a photographer to be at my location to capture us getting ready around 3:30pm, or even earlier. Depends on when the makeup and hair person will be there. Reception starts at 6pm, food at 7, dancing at 8pm. That would give us enough time to take photos after the ceremony of just us, plus some guests, any speeces, some dancing and cake cutting. I'm hoping to get them until 8:30pm at least.
So I will have to work some magic to ge them to cover more time. My friend's husband is a photographer so I might ask them to do the before the ceremony shots. I want them to sit and relax at a wedding for once. I'd also like to do a 'Trash the Dress' shoot the next day so I'm going to see if I can work both into my package. I will be moving from the hotel to the chapel and then chapel to the reception so I'm wasting time by moving all over. If you're just doing one venue like a hotel, you may be able to get all that in 4 hours.
I am just looking now, but I won't be booking a photog for another couple months. Can you let me know what you end up with? It's scary because photos are so important, but at the same time, it's so hard to pay that kind of money.