I agree. You are not doing everything wrong. I think there is too much pressure put on brides to do things a certain way. The way I figure, your wedding, your day, your way.
Sophie, I love the picture of Paris that you have for your profile picture. Welcome, I am sure you will find the things you are looking for in this forum.
Hi. I am really excited to be here. We are getting married in two weeks, and only found this forum now. We are getting married in Cuba at a private estate on May 12. 2012. Jessi