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giraffexx

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  1. Just need to vent... I choose to not have a bridal shower for several reasons. 1. I felt awkward to ask guests to come to shower and spend more money after already asking them to travel to Mexico. 2. I know I am in the minority here but I find most showers to be BORING and I personally did not want to have sit through one for myself. I am fine with my choice and have not regretted it once. So.....last night my FI slipped and told me how disappointed and unhappy his mother was that I did not want a shower. That she felt I was being inconsiderate to her since this is HER AFFAIR as well and she wanted to have a shower and to be able to invite her friends. Normally, my FI is very careful not to repeat these type of things to me since he doesn't want to get caught in between. I totally get it and actually really appreciate the fact that he does that. I've been trying to shake it off all day and ignore what I heard last night but I can't. I am pissed! I would never say anything to her since my FI basically begged me not to. But for her to imply that I am taking away for HER experience, HER affair....this woman must be out of her f***king mind!!! I did not particularly care for this woman to begin with but now I can't stand her. I can't believe this woman is about to become my MIL...WTF!!!??? Â On top of this....she's asked me a million times what she should wear. Since we are having a beach wedding I told her to wear whatever color, style she'd like. I suggested a nice sundress or a pretty dress that you'd wear out to dinner. The only thing that I asked of her was to not get a formal dress. She is wearing a ball gown to our wedding...on the beach! Â BTW- my mom has not once given me any shit about not having a shower. Â Sorry for the long rant! But I do feel a little better from venting
  2. You look beautiful! I love the top of your dress so casual and chic! Â
  3. So sorry that you're dealing with this BS, Jes!! I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you, everything will work out in the end! Stay positive Â
  4. I bought that exact same clutch from Cadybriar! I LOVE it so much! Â
  5. Yikes, already!!! I'm the week after you. Was I suppose to do this by now? Do you when is the latest I can submit it? I am still waiting on 2 more people to confirm if they are coming or not. Super annoying...they sent in their RSVPs declining but called me last week to tell me that they are trying to figure out if they can come but I still don't have a final answer from them. Â
  6. Love that song! That is what FI and I are walking back down the aisle to after we are married. Â
  7. I emailed my WC this morning to find out about this. This was her response: Â when the wedding couple stays five nights or longer in a Master or Presidential suite or 20 ocean view guest suites with a minimum of 5 nights at a participating Real Resort*, the wedding package is complimentary aswell as the Marriage ceremony performed by a Non-Denominational Christian Minister or Justice of the Peace. Â I HATE that we all get different answers!
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