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Hi girls!!! I think Brooke had a fabulous idea- start a Facebook page! I am going to go do it now!!! I miss you all. Tricia, I am glad you had fun in Mexico and I miss our chats!!! I hope you don't think I abandoned you but I actually got in trouble about a month back for using work email. Ugh, That was so humiliating. So I don't touch it now and when I get home I always seem to run out of time to email. I got an iphone recently so that has helped! xo k, I officially declare this thread a bust. Jk. If you aren't my friend on Facebook PM me and I'll make sure you get added to the group. Hugs & kissed to my girls.

You can't start trying until you are ready and prepared to get pregnant. Yes, it can take a very long time and you deal with it as it comes, but it could also happen on the very first try and you have to be prepared for that. Â It's been nearly two months since my miscarriage and we are going to start trying again next cycle... getting excited but getting nervous! Someone said something on the previous page about enjoying your bodies freedom... while I was only pregnant for 2 months, I still couldn't agree with her more. Â I am so sad though, because the thrill of a positive pregnancy test has been taking away from me. Instead I'll just be so nervous hoping it sticks! Only time will tell............ I just pray I don't have to experience another MC. Â Baby dust to everyone! and don't stop believing Valentine_Baby. We just have to stay positive. A good friend of mine just got pg after 1.5 yrs of trying. Have you had a Hysterosalpingogram? I know many people who have suffered from difficulties conceiving and once they had this procedure done, they got pregnant almost immediately!

hey girls!!!!!! I miss you all!! sorry I have been awol, I just hate this new format. I have to get used to it........... My summer has probably been the most awful on record for the history of me, lol. How's that for a happy start to a post? I am doing MUCH better now so can kind of laugh off all the crap. Well not ALL the crap, but you know. So after the MC I went into a pretty bad depression. Well, for me anyway. It was just all the hormones regulating themselves but for the first time since this past week I am totally me again YAY. During all of this my husband's beloved family dog died so that was really sad. Then a week later we get into a car accident. We're fine, the car will survive..... it was just sort of wtf?? Could things get worse??? Then I realized, uhm YUP things could be way worse, and I just started being happy again from that day forward. It was like the accident shook all the negativity out of me ,LOL Â So in two weeks we are off to Paris!!! I am so beyond excited you have no idea. We are gone for 8 days and mid-week we are doing a day trip to Amsterdam on the high speed train. DH has never been, so this is for him. Â I don't know if October is going to happen for me now. I can't go the weekend we all agreed upon because my co-worker had booked it off without me knowing... now I have all these weddings to go to and that costs $$$$. I was hoping to go to NYC on airmiles but I don't think that works last min. so can we do a roll call and see who is a for sure and maybe figure out other dates? I am not expecting you all to change your plans for me, but maybe... LOL Â Let's try to get this thread alive again! I miss my brides. I have been hanging out at this babyandbump forum all summer because they have a really good pregnancy loss section... but it's really depressing so I'd rather be here! Â xoxoxoxo Chris

ok guys here I am again! Three posts in a row. Just got to work and discovered that my co-worker booked that first weekend in October off (both the Friday and the Monday). I am sooo angry! he always takes weekends and the worst of it is I have to work the following weekend too (our Thanksgiving). I really really really want to meet up with you guys. Can I propose the third weekend in October??? the 15th, 16th, 17th? Brooke is that too late for you?? I am highly annoyed today, lol. (*got AF yesterday, my body is not used to all these hormones..... )

I must be cranky cause I really hate this new forum. No signatures, no gifts, can't see people's signatures. It's like we all lost our sense of identity. Most of the smilies are gone.............. h a t e i t.

wow, i don't like this new forum layout. no one's signatures work.............. it's so hard to read. *Hates change Count me in for October. Let's set some dates down soon. ie. do we arrive Friday and leave Sunday? or arrive Friday and leave Monday? I have airmiles I'd like to use. Also we should tally those who need roomies. Personally, I am all for maxing out people per room to save on $$. 4 to a room or is that too cozy? LOL I need a roomie!

Krista you looked absolutely stunning! Love all the pictures. Can't wait to see more and hear the full review. xo You guys make such a sweet couple. Congrats!!!!!

Hey Krista!!! I am dying for you to come back!!! Loved the planning thread but now I want to see the real deal! xo

Hey everyone! Damn I have been procrastinating so bad at work and now I have Brooke's blog to read. *I am going to get fired, LMAO Susie- sorry your son is causing you trouble. My aunt is going through some stuff right now. Nothing bad, but just the trials and tribulations of having a 17 yr. old. AND it all has to do with MY wedding in a round about way. I don't know if I told you guys this but my 17 yr old cousin and Eric's 17 yr old cousin kind of fell in love that week in Mexico. Problem is she is in Mtl and he is in Edmonton..... they skype for hours a day. He came at the end of May to be her prom date! But my aunt is having a hard time letting go and not being the centre of his attention. Plus he's also probably being a total lazy ass 17 yr old............. Just remember how much you love him and how cute he was when he was a baby! Krista- come to Mtl for a weekend! don't have a pool but it could be a mini vacation When does our girl get back? On a totally different note, today is Eric and my 1st date anniversary! *6 years.

I totally agree with RonNMel. (funny we are both from Mtl! haha) Obviously I would love to be able to stay home for the first couple years, or work part-time, but it's just not financially feasable for us. There are pros and cons to everything. Also, not only is daycare good for kids, it's good for mom too! I am sorry but there is nothing more annoying than someone who can't have an adult conversation after they have children...

I am still here!!! I think we are all just waiting for krista to come back gushing about her wedding!!! YAY for 19 weeks! I think you look fabulous btw.

Quote: Originally Posted by purpleshells I know!! I know someone whos been through it as well, she was telling me that 25% of all girls go through a miscarriage.....thats 1 out of 4 of us here that will go through it.......thats so high...... we are here for you! Well, hopefully I increased all your odds of NOT having one. It's been two weeks exactly today, and I am doing MUCH better. It almost all seems a bit like a dream (the pregnancy) or a nightmare (the mc). I am really looking forward to getting my period so we can start again! Let's just pray I don't have to go through this again. It's very draining... Ok, this thread is officially now back on track to happy baby planning!!

Well... I wish I was still planning my wedding, because my pregnancy didn't last. I had a miscarriage at 8 weeks. :s Seems like starting a family is such an uphill battle. After you have everything in place, you actually manage to conceive, then your body fails you. I hope none of you have to go through this. It's very traumatic, but I am doing much better. It's been 10 days now and my HCG levels are almost back to zero. *sigh

Clay pot? LMAO please please please post a picture! Are you Ontario girls getting this insane storm? I am on the 26th floor and it was like we were in the middle of a tornado

LOL Brooke... I am sure those two days will draaaaaaaag too! Can't wait to hear about it and see if your mom is right. I hope Krista's wedding is everything she dreamed of.

oh Susie I want to come to your pool tooooooo. haha

I am so excited for Krista!!!! I'd love to be doing this all over again. Actually, we finally got our marriage cert. from Mexico in the mail so hopefully in a couple weeks we'll be legit! LOL Brooke that slip and slide looked awesome! I can't believe you went down!! Be careful!

Hey guys! Just thought I'd pop in and say hello. I have been kind of laying low these days. Nothing new to report. Nothing good anyway. My situation is still the same made worse by my inability to well... go to the bathroom. I have made good friends with Mr. Prune juice. *sigh I just pray everything is fine, that this will stop, and I'll get to enjoy my pregnancy. Sabrina- I am a little late and you already said you are over it, but I totally understand where you are coming from re. your mom's visit. At least she is coming. I think we just have to focus on the positive. My parents will never come for Christmas ever they told me because it's too cold here. Selfish much? They do visit and are coming this summer again. It will be their third time in 6 years. Susie- nice to hear from you again! We always love hearing your stories, don't disappear! We've already lost a few on this board. Krista- not long now!! You must be getting nervous! Don't stress. Just try to enjoy this time as much as you possibly can. Brooke- loved the belly pic on Facebook, sexy mama! Ali- welcome back from Paradise!!! Hope you had an awesome trip. We want to hear all about it. Teshy- how are you feeling? Where are your baby bump photos? Tricia- any plans for the summer? how is the business going?

Quote: Originally Posted by krista.baird oh well! It's actually going to be better this way, because the new place includes tableclothes, linens, setup, bar, etc, so we don't have to do anything except show up and leave when we are done! YAY!!! That's the spirit!

oooooooh meeeeeeeee tooooooooooooooooooooooo. lol It was the best time! Can't wait to see pics of your growing belly. Thx for your support too Sabrina. I think we are in similar situations... millions of miles away from our families and close friends. I tell you, it's days like yesterday I really need my mom. Anyways, positivity! I know what I am going through is really nothing so far... until otherwise all is well and that's what I will focus on. Our dear friend Krista said she'd look for my bracelet while in PDC. I :heart: my Feb(JULY)brides!!!! I'll send you an email with a pic tonight!!! And like I said yesterday, dont worry about the AHR, it will all work out. Mexico is your real wedding and just focus on that. Everything else is just a bonus. Am I the only one who hasn't had her dressed cleaned yet? *soooo bad!

Quote: Originally Posted by TonyandTricia Chris- Well, I'm glad that everything looked good at that apointment!! I can imagine how stressful it must have been to be alone and havng the worst running through your mind. Luckily you got good news!! Positive thoughts! So, they were one week off of your guess? Don't they just go by your LMP?? Yeah they do, but I guess it's not 100% accurate. It would mean everyone has a 28 day cycle and ovulates on the 14th day. I am not surprised actually by the new gestational date, because I had a feeling I ovulated late at the time and it makes sense why after three days missed period my pg test was still soooo faint.

Hey guys, so today has been stressful. Went in for my ultrasound at 9am. Sat there all by myself for over an hour before they called my name. I was in tears by the time it was my turn I was so stressed. I shouldn't have gone alone, it was a pretty ominous experience. Worrying about my pregnancy and then on top of it you are laying there in a dark room with two strange men, one who has a wand up my you know what. lol The doctor in the room said he doesn't think there is any reason to worry that so far everything looks good and he thinks he saw a heartbeat but wasn't 100%. But, I just got a call from my doctor and according to the report they sent her, he says he did see a heart beat. So I'll just go with that. Also according to the report I am only 6 wks 1 day (not 7 wks 3 days like previously thought). *weird. This morning when I was getting ready for work I realized I left my bracelet at the doctor's office yesterday. I called a million times over and they don't have it. I am so sad because Eric bought it for me on our honeymoon and I wear it every single day. I told my doctor when she called and she said she would keep her eye out for it. Hopefully someone turned it in. Who the hell would steal something out of a doctors office? Anyways, so that's my day. I am feeling pretty blue and just want to go home to bed. I don't think I am over from the trauma of this morning. So when exactly is it you actually get to enjoy your pregnancy?

So I went to see the Doctor and I have to go in for an internal ultra-sound tomorrow to make sure I have a 'viable' pregnancy. I am not in any pain and the bleeding has been pretty minimal so I am remaining totally positive. Guess I'll know tomorrow!

Hey guys! Hope you all had a good weekend. Brooke that is so exciting! I can't wait for that feeling. Amazing! Breens congrats on your little girl!!! I think they won't say 100% just to cover their asses, lol America is a sue happy nation, I could just see it unfold in court, 'but you said we were having a girl!!!' lol *not you guys of course. Today I am 7 wks 2 days to be precise, lol We told my dad yesterday who in turn told my brother and aunt. He called us threes times yesterday he was so excited. It was a nice turn of events because his reaction when I first told him was pretty detached (remember I live a million miles away)... I guess after letting the realization sink in that his little girl was going to be a mommy he is pretty over the moon. It's cool because my parents are coming in a month for a week so it will be nice to see them. I am just really nervous and focused on getting through these next 5 weeks. I have been having some spotting which concerns me, and it never lasts more than a couple hours. TMI but it happens AFTER we have sex (particularly if I climax)... so my husband isn't too worried because he says- there is a pattern. But it worries me. I especially don't want to have the kind of pregnancy where I can't exercise and stuff (sex!) but I'll roll with the punches. My priority of course is a healthy baby. I have my first doctor's visit today so I'll be sure to ask her tons of questions. I am stressed to be leaving work for so many hours because no one here knows. My appt. is at 11:30am which means I'll have to leave at 11am and I am sure I won't be back before 3pm. :s My boss is in Florida, and I told my co-worker that I was going to see an allergist! LMAO Have a good day girls.

Oh Krista you look sooooooooooo beautiful!!!!!!! the dress is absolutely stunning on you. You must be getting so excited!