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sunsetbride1

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  1. We are getting legally married in the US and doing a renewal of vows package in DR. I asked our WC; she will perform our ceremony in DR and they do not require any legal documentation.

     

    We have told our guests that we are doing the legal part of our marriage in the US to be with his elderly grandmother BUT we are not exchanging vows, rings or considering it to be our actual wedding day. Basically, the US marriage is legal and symbolic for his grandmother; the DR wedding is our 'real wedding' in every way.

     

    Honestly, none of our guests minded at all ... no one even questioned it; especially when I explained what a process it was to get legally married in DR (costs, translation, etc).

  2. Thanks everyone!!!!! I am so in love with this jewelry; I am not sure why my feelings are so strong for it ... LOL.

     

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    Originally Posted by tylersgirl View Post
    Shannon~Gorgeous jewelry!!! It will match the purple purse really well too, lol!
    LOL.. Desiree, how did you know? Everything I buy now is to match my beautiful gift from you! Don't they look gorgeous together!!!

    In all seriousness, thanks doll; I really value your feedback. =)

     

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    Originally Posted by MegaShay View Post
    They're beautiful! I love Etsy wink.gif
    Thank you!!!! I am starting to live on Etsy, My one friend buys all her jewelry off there and now has found some amazing clothing designers.

     

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    Originally Posted by Jacqueline View Post
    oh its purrtyyyy
    Hi Jacqueline! I haven't seen you on here in a while bc I was gone ... I love your kitty; my cat does that too - she cuddles right under the covers!
  3. Okay, I just saw this and have to chime in!!!

     

    My first instinct would also be that I want to burn them... LOL! But, cooler heads would prevail and I would just tell them I found them; how should we dispose of them??

     

    When FI and I were moving in together... he gave me a box of pictures when he was working OT one Saturday and told me I could look through them. There were tons of pics with ex's which didn't bother me very much. There were a few cards/letters which kind of got under my skin. Then there were some very suggestive (to say the least) - fine, pornographic pictures of two of his ex's ... now those I had a major problem with. I called him immediately and asked who the naked chicks were in the pics; where they the ones with the letters? I tried to make a joke about it but he could tell when he got home it bugged me. I didn't push it ... and the next day he showed me that he threw away the porno pics and he letters; that he forgot that he had them.

     

    I honestly don't keep a lot of stuff either. I have one wedding album (the others we burned together at a party in our backyard with our friends); but am keeping one because it was a major part of my life. I did ask him if it bothered him though because if it did - I would get rid of it. He could care less; so its sits in the corner of a closet gathering dust.

  4. I agree with everyone else.. I think that almost all of us have been through the family guilt thing; so I am glad that you are feeling better about it.

     

    FI's elderly grandmother and aunt were not happy about our DW either... we are going to the courthouse in their town to get married with them as witnesses so it will be something special just for them.

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