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Pastor marrying us? Do I pay for his ticket and stay?


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#11 StephanieMN

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    Posted 07 December 2007 - 12:38 PM

    Yeah I have to agree that pastors really don't make a lot of money. You could just set aside the money and let him decided what it goes for so you don't feel like you are paying for one certain thing. If the pastor chooses to use the money for the flights and then pay for the hotel on his own that is up to him. I know either way it is more money...such is the beast we call "The wedding." :)

    #12 LCBride2007

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      Posted 07 December 2007 - 01:20 PM

      Quote:
      Originally Posted by AnnR
      are you paying him for his services, or was he more invited as a guest? it sounds like he was invited to perform the services, so my initial response is that yes, you should pay for his lodging and flight - but not the flight of the wife.
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      Originally Posted by Bavaro-Princess
      Yes - He was invited like a guest... and my fiance said well it would be nice if he can go and marry us also... he is not charging us for his service... is it ok if i pay for his stay andnot his wife? i feel like thats wrong for some reason but i dont know

      well it seems that he was invited as a guest, and was going to come anyway, and then since he's already there, he might as well marry you two. if that's the case then i think i want to ammend my answer! lol i guess i misunderstood and thought he was only asked to attend so that he could perform the services. i think that anything you can help with - maybe just lodging for the 2 of them (then you're not excluding the wife) or something would be very nice.




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