you will appreciate the time just spent alone together. I don't think it will matter if you are at another resort or not. You will be busy during the week everyone else is there, it's going to be just nice to spend some alone time with your husband.
We are planning a honeymoon for next year (the year anniversary) and time to plan and save. I would have done the extra couple of days at the resort just to tie us over and enjoy some honeymoon before having to wait another year. But oh well I still had a great week.
I am glad you girls booked extra time. Honestly, you will be glad you did also.