You'll figure it all out and regardless of how it turns out it will be your perfect dream wedding and you will be able to include Elisha one way or another!
Originally Posted by Jenny2014
I know! I'm going to sit on it for a few months, see how I feel about "promoting" my now only bridesmaid to Matron of Honour. Elisha will and always be my first and only choice for Maid of Honour, but Kandis just might fit the bill for Matron (it also helps that she lives only 45 minutes away, instead of Elisha's 3 provinces away.... and she just got married in the Bahama's this past August, so her brain is still set to wedding planning). Your absolutely right, I may find someone else to be my bridesmaid. But I am completely fine with just having the one person be there, and then having a "flat" Elisha there, either through technology (read: Skype), or through a picture/ whatnot.
I know things could change for Elisha too, but that would make me more sad, if she could suddenly come and it was because something happened with her job.