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Undecided Bride - to say I DO or not

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#1 Chayness120590

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    Posted 15 January 2013 - 11:20 PM



    I am Chai, planning to get marry this January 30, 2013.

    I've been with my fiance for two years, we've been through UPS and DOWNS 

    (most of the time DOWNS)

    Anyways, he been always asking me to marry him. 

    Not in a traditional way but Civil wedding.

    I didn't agree to that, in the first place I am still not sure if I want to get married.

    He is now 27 and i am still 22 years old.

    He maybe sure of what he is saying, or should i say he just get into the flow.

    I am 3 months pregnant, and my parents ask him for his plan.

    He says to marry me, but then it went to be too SOON.

    I maybe excited but most of the time CONFUSED..

    Will this marriage life be a success? or just another mistake.

    I get the point of my parents, but in my own opinion, 

    marriage should be PLANNED very well and there should NO SECOND THOUGHTS.

    Can someone advice me what to do?

    I am still not ready to marry, but I will be such a disgrace to my family if i end up 

    pregnant and doesn't have a husband.

    your opinion will be much appreciated.





    #2 m8chow

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    Posted 02 October 2013 - 05:24 PM

    Awww nobody replied to this... I really hope you're happy with whatever decision you've made.  All the best to you and your family.

    #3 scolen

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      Posted 08 October 2013 - 12:07 PM

      this is something you need to think about on what you want and tell him and your family on what you want... wish you the best!!! 

      #4 REP

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        Posted 04 January 2014 - 02:33 PM

        hope it worked out

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