Hi, I am Chay, can be called as "undecided bride". I am getting married this January 30, 2013. I am happy with my partner and I do love him so much. The thing is, I am 3 months pregnant. Yes we are planning to marry, but then my parents took the SOONEST date of the wedding, At times, I got excited but there are ALWAYS times for confusion. Because it's not me who decides, I come up with second thoughts. I ask God for help, He gave me signs, still I can't make up my mind. Too confused and too distracted. The reasons behind my confusion: first : my fiance is not responsible enough in having or building a family. I can even clearly see it to him. But then he is willing to do so. second : we didn't plan this, our parents ONLY decides for what to do. and lastly : I AM STILL NOT SURE OF MY SELF. Will I get into this life long relationship. I may be pregnant, but is it an assurance to make a HUGE decision in life? My parents protects for the name of my family, and I understand them. But how will I ever have a good marriage life if in the start it wasn't about us who decides? Can someone give me some advice? Thanks, Chay