I have a new boy name to add to the list. I was at my cousins baby shower this past weekend and she's kind of in the same situation, but they are opposite. Meaning she married a first generation Italian as well, and she's all Irish, but her hubbie is pushing for super Italian names and she doesn't feel right since she's Irish. She said that right now, he's pushing Vincent but she don't like Vin/Vinny/Vince and I said yeah, I can see that, but you could name him Vincenzo and call him Enzo - and then I slapped Jill and said, oh shit, I just found my name! My cousin was telling me to shush with the Italian version b/c she didn't want it, so I told her I'm totally stealing it and putting it on my list.
So Vincenzo (Enzo for short) is my current #1. And of course, Matt doesn't love it b/c there's a cousin Vince. But we would use Enzo, not Vin/Vinny/Vince.
What about anyone else, got any baby names you want to discuss?