I just need to take a minute and vent my frustrations because I know you ladies are always great with making people feel better about things!
One of my three girls in the bridal party is making me want to go crazy!
Originally, we were going to do a traditional wedding here at home, but 3 or 4 months ago decided to go with a DW. Two out of the three girls were like, "I'm there no matter what, it's your big day and I want to be there for it," and the third one replied with something like, "why would you do that? People aren't going to be able to afford it, it's a lot to ask." I told her I understood that some people would not be able to make it because of the cost, but that's why we were having an AHR so we could still include everyone.
About a month later she was telling me a story about a conversation she had with her mother about how her mother asked her why she wasn't going to go. Though...she never told me she couldn't go. So, for the last few months we've been trying to figure out how she will be able to afford it, but everything we come up with, a few days later she tells me why it all of a sudden won't work. I feel like she is not trying at all and just stringing me along. I would completely understand if she just said she couldn't afford it. I've told her that several times and I understand she may really want to go, but she knows she can't, why continue to have me come up with ways to make it work? I mean, eventually she's gotta realize that it's just going to frustrate me to no end....
Okay, I think that's all for now! Thanks in advance for listening!