As for the cake it sounds like she's being a bit picky but she is the one paying for it...... She might have something else in mind but she should give you more of a reason than "absolutely not getting it from that bakery". However, if you want 100% control over the cake you should get it on your own.
| Originally Posted by autjo |
What a terrible situation. I'm not very good on advice, but maybe this will make you laugh. The ironic thing is that one of my girlfriends sent me this joke today and IMO totally works for you...
Jennifer's wedding day was fast approaching. Nothing
could dampen her excitement -- not even her parent's
Her mother had found the PERFECT dress to wear and would be
the best-dressed mother- of-the-bride ever!
A week later, Jennifer was horrified to learn that her
father's new Young wife had bought the exact same dress!
Jennifer asked her to exchange it, but she refused.
'Absolutely not, I look like a million bucks in this
dress, and I'm Wearing it,' she replied.
Jennifer told her mother who graciously said, 'Never
mind sweetheart. I'll get another dress. After
all, it's your special day
A few days later, they went shopping and did find another
gorgeous dress. When they stopped for lunch, Jennifer asked
her mother, 'Aren't you going to return the other
dress? You really don't have another occasion where you
could wear it.
Her mother just smiled and replied, 'Of course I do,
I'm wearing it
to the rehearsal dinner the night before the wedding.