So my bad turns to worse...(another long vent post)
Posted 11 June 2008 - 10:57 PM
Posted 11 June 2008 - 11:31 PM
Posted 12 June 2008 - 10:18 AM
I am so sorry to hear about all of this and to hear about your miscarriage.
You must be under so much stress.
I am with Rachel, collect unemployment, you have paid into it already.
That was a canned email from the WC, so hopefully you can make her understand you have a date, you have past emails, etc. If she doesn't get it, call the hotel and ask for a manager.
If we can help in any way just yell!
Lots of hugs!
Posted 02 July 2008 - 08:08 AM
Posted 02 July 2008 - 08:12 AM
Posted 02 July 2008 - 08:30 AM
| Originally Posted by TammyB |
OMG I'm so sorry. I don't even know where to start, I'm sorry to hear about your Miscarriage, how far along were you?
I can't remember what you do for a living but how hard is it to find a new job in your field?
Is their someone else at the resort you can talk to regarding all of this?
Hopefully you'll find another job soon and you can start after the wedding, just try to focus on getting your wedding date confirmed again. Did you hire a WC? What about a TA?
I am in the IT field. While there are a lot of IT positions open in Atlanta, there are twice as many people seeking jobs. I actually went to a career fair and stood in line just to get in for and hour and a half! And I arrived early, lol!
I contacted an NH hotel rep that is actually in Miami and she got the ball rolling. I actually have a TA that is helping me sort the wedding stuff out. Thank God for you girls, b/c when I posted my original post, I had no clue what to do! Its like everything was erased from my brain.
How can we help? Do you have a contract? They don't want an influx of emails from us....
| Originally Posted by LadyP |
Ok breathe. I feel your pain and stress but it will work itself out and you will be fine.
First gather all of your emails and correspondence with the other coordinators and show the new chick that the date has been confirmed and your have aggreed upon a price and contracts signed if that is the case.
Second being laid off will work in your favor for right now becuase you can collect unemployment and be home getting things to gether for your beautiful August wedding .
Thirdly relax your body needs to heal from the torment it just went throught. By the way your handling it well.
Fourth doo you. Get your nails done get a facial have lunch with you and get your mind right.
THE BDW FORUM WE GOT YOUR BACK CHICA
I am going back and forth with the unemployment office now. There were so many freakin people there it was crazy. Defitenly not a happy place. But I have filed and been assigned a case work, so I am waiting and waiting...
And I actually did have a me day. One of my friends that got laid off as well, we had a girls day and that really helped me. We laughed, we cried, we cursed. lol.
Posted 02 July 2008 - 08:40 AM
| Originally Posted by TA Maureen |
I am sincerely sorry for the loss of your pregnancy. I know how difficult that is. If you want to talk feel free to PM me. Many of the girls here have been through similar situations and are very supportive and understanding. They helped me through a lot. I'm here for you.
The timing of losing your job is horrible. Since it's due to the economy you will be able to collect unemployment. You can go online and apply. I know that's not the same thing as having job security at a time like this but it's there to help you.
As for your WC situation, if you get a chance forward me whatever you have as far as contact info goes for the resort and wedding department. Also send me your wedding date, time, and location and if you would like me to I will try to make some contact for you to get to the bottom of this.
Again I'm very sorry and I hope things begin to look up for you.
| Originally Posted by Yari |
Oh no sweetie, wow!
I am so sorry you are being tested like this right now.
Regarding the job, I agree with the others...collect unemployment and focus on your wedding.
As for your ex-MOH f'her...you don't need to even think about that situation right now.
I am so sorry you had a miscarriage. Take some time to heal.
We are totally here for you!
As far as my ex-MOH, thats exactly what I have done. I still havent heard from her but at this point I'm so over the situation and her.
All this 'spare' time has given me time to go through a physical, emotionaly, and mental strengthining, not to mention making my faith stronger.
Thanks again :~)
Posted 02 July 2008 - 09:07 AM
Posted 02 July 2008 - 09:14 AM
you are such a strong person -- look at you -- you went through all that shit and came out on the other side. great things are bound to happen for you really soon, i can just feel it! :hug: