| Originally Posted by carly |
I would say that the 1st 9 months or so of us being engagement we fought like crazy. I even posted a thread similar to this one. I got lots of repsonses and some great PM's with advice and support. Bascially it all came down to the fact that you DO love him. I think some time apart, some personal time, is what you need. I love me some personal time, which Matt has a hard time understanding, but he is better about it now.
This would have given me about 1 hour to be by myself. His response, "Well, are you going to come by the house and pick up the baby so I can get some sleep?" I could have choked him!
I am working on getting HIM out of the house on Friday night. I'm hoping he stays with his friend and they can go golf on Saturday morning. (His friend lives an hour away so it's better if he just stays there). Then I would have ALL DAY SATURDAY to myself!
His buddy is working on it so we'll see what happens. We did talk for a long time on the phone about one of the reasons he is getting on my nerves (the fact that he badmouths my sister). I think we got that figured out. Now if I can only get some alone time without him making me feel guilty I'll be fine.