Hi Charlene, I spoke to the wedding manager with the email address that's provided by Thomsons in your pack. I ask for the details for the cocktail hour and private receptions and the receptions in the a la carte. When I looked at the menus for a private reception I just didn't think they were worth 45 dollars per person and thought with us having a reception back at home then having it in one of a la carte restaurants would be perfect and celebrate upstairs in the infinity bar with drinks and socialising all together. I've booked the Asian restaurant as if you have more than I think 16 people you have 3 options the Asian, Mexican and Jamaican restaurant but you have to all have the same starter main dessert so the Asian was the best and it gets fab reviews for its food. We are going to have the steel band for our ceremony. I have my dress, and ordering my bridesmaid dresses next month, ive picked some dessy dresses for the bridesmaid and need one for my little girl who will be 3 years old. Going to take some silk flower arrangements out, as with the weather I think the fresh ones will just wilter. Going to take a few extras from home confetti, favour boxes with little pressies for people and decorate the table in the a la carte restaurant. Going to take some Chinese lanterns for the beach. How is your plans going? Xx