Your right it does add up! We did decide to go with the unforgettable package...and bar service for the reception. Pricy but with us having 60 plus guests as well, I want to make sure everyone is taken care of....especially because everyone made an effort to come. The flip side, I am bringing my own decor such as chair ties, table overlays, etc. Jan's flowers will be doing the centrepieces as well. Cant wait to see it all come together! What are your colours? Ours are magenta with other shades of purple, silver and white. I had written a reply already but it didn't look like it posted. If this is a duplicate.....my bad and ignore...lol