HI EVERYONE! I am getting married here 10-20-12!!! We will have around 50 guests!! I am still deciding between the secrets of love vs. ultimate package. -first of all, has anyone had a wedding this big at this resort? any pointers? what package and stuff did you do? -has anyone ever done the buffet option here? -if we have the reception on the beach, what type of lighting is included?? -Did you guys use the resort DJ? what did you pay? She quoted me $1500 for 3 hours??? That seems excessive! -Did anyone use the resort photographer? The packages seem pretty expensive for what you get!! What outside photographers do you recommend? -I read that the music and reception must end at 11pm?? Is this true?! -Did anyone serve the 'Surf and Turf'?? How was it? -Did anyone do the Cocktail Hour in between the ceremony and reception? Did they serve the appetizers that are included in the 'dinner menu' here? Or do they get appetizers here and then again with dinner? -What brands of liquor are included in the international open bar? Any other tips for planning this with 50 people?? THANKS : )