So, we are trying to cut costs with out being tacky. We may have up to 60 guests coming and I had a question about the cocktail hour........ Is it needed at an all-inclusive resort? We would rather spend the money on extras for the reception. Can't the guests just go to any bar and drink for free anyway for 45 minutes, instead of being stuck drinking the type of alcohol that we choose for them? Also, did anyone do a mexican fiesta buffet dinner for their wedding, instead of the offered dinner packages? We just want a big party.