ACW - I honestly felt this way too. Its harder to do what Im about to say.. RELAX. Its JAMAICA! If people don't want to attend then thats their problem, If you have enough for your group rate then its time to put up your feet and just take in the joys of being engaged. Believe me, this isn't my first Rodeo. Ive been married before and its best to not freak out. (not saying you are, but I know I did) Winery in Ontario?!! REALLY? Don't bother. This wedding is for YOU and YOUR FI.. anyone else is a bonus, and who doesn't want to watch a wedding in paradise. Group Rate or not your wedding with be fantastic and beautiful. Why bother spending 15,000.00 plus for ONE DAY for people your barely know ( or don't want to know LOL) when you can put that money to use somewhere else? The ones that Cancelled with Regret it when your laying on the beach sipping your pina colada's and they aren't. You never know, you might have some last minute people hop on the reservation list, you might not. Destination Weddings aren't worth the stress.. Have a glass of Wine, The more stressed you are, the more stressed the men get..