Hi Lees, No worries! I am happy to help out You're completely right about Oahu, you dont need a car cause you're right there on the strip. It is so convenient. In Maui, though, your guests will need a car to get to Lahaina from Ka'anapali. It's about a 10-15 minute drive, however, I think that some hotels offer free shuttles and I believe that there are buses in the area that go there. In Maui you sort of need a car because a lot of the beautiful things you would want to see, i.e Road to Hana, IAO needle, Haleakala, are all a drive's away. Ka'anapali is a strip full of all different hotels/condos/villas for all budgets. Through research for our own wedding, I've found that Royal Lahaina Resort and Ka'anapali Beach hotel offer some good deals. However, I'm not sure if they have the amenities you're looking for. I got a travel agent and I do a lot of my own research as well, and it's hit or miss. Sometimes I check travel websites and see that the Westin Maui Resort and Spa (which is really nice) is going for the same price as one of the other hotels that are not as nice. So just look around and do your research. I completely agree with you about Hyatt, it's absolutely gorgeous there BUT most people cant afford their $400/night price tag! If you dont care that you are not directly on the water, but like a 5 minute walk away, then the Outrigger Maui Eldorado resort may be an affordable option. The couple times that I've been to Maui, I've always stayed at the Whaler on Ka'anapali. It's a condo with a full kitchen, which ends up saving me money cause I try and eat breakfast and lunch when I can. That way I can justify staying on vacation for a longer period of time If you want some information about activities, I can send you the link to my website that I'm working on. I posted some of my favorite excursions and I think you'll be really amazed by all the things that Maui has to offer! Although, Maui is definitely different than Oahu, I think that it really has it's advantages. Its not as touristy, no huge buildings or traffic jams, and beaches are a lot less crowded. My wedding planner is AMAZING! Her name is Kara from youralohawedding.com She helps you with EVERYTHING! I mean I probably went through hundreds of emails with her already and I'm not getting married till January!!! My fiance and I are having a very detailed ceremony and are both very particulate about what we want. If you do decide to do Maui, talk to her for sure, cause I initially had a really hard time finding someone that didn't try to offer me all these packages that I didnt want or need, Then I finally found her on theknot.com and everything just clicked. Let me know if you want any more info or if you have any questions. Larisa