Hi Rus! You said your wedding is on May 2011, right? That's still a long way to go. Once you get started with your weight loss regime now, you may be able to achieve it. I'm not just sure about the 75lbs, though. But I know you can make it. Just stay optimistic and keep whatever exercise routine and diet you have right now. I'm sure it will pay off. All we need is perseverance and hardwork.