My fiance and recently decided after many hours of planning and unplanning deciding and undeciding that we're eloping in Vegas on 10-15-10. I am just wondering if I am going to regret this? We didn't have the money to do a big wedding and no one was willing to help us with the cost so this is the most logical and special way to do it. I feel that it should be about us and not so much everyone else but I'm scared that I'm missing out on things. No bachelorette party, no wedding shower, no bridesmaids, no nothing. Is this normal? Did you all feel this way at some point? And what about after do you still regret it or do you love your decision? I obviously can't change it now and I dont' want to I just want to know that there's someone else that maybe feels the same way.