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magirl

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  1. Thats awsome, I probably would have said the same thing. I was thinking actaully I may have my dad escort me from my room to some staging area, where he can then group up with my mother and I can meet FI.  Then the photographers will have plenty of time to get father/daughter pics, and I will still get to walk with FI.
     

    Originally Posted by clgriffi7 View Post

    magirl - I am with you as I will be 31 by the time my wedding rolls around and I don't feel the need to be "given away" either.  However, I do think pictures of my father and I walking down the aisle will be special for my dad and my mom.  So my plan is to walk down the aisle with my dad, but to not have anything in the ceremony like "who gives this woman to be married?"

     

    For reference to my personality:  My now brother-in-law asked my father for my sister's hand in marriage before proposing.  When my Dad told me, I responded with: If a man ever asks you for my hand, you had best turn him away and tell him that he needs to rethink how well he knows me.



  2. My future MIL (actually the entire family) is notorious for being up to an hour late for things... so I'm telling everyone it will start 1/2 hour earlier,, then if they are late,, too bad I'm not waiting.
     

    Originally Posted by riokayak View Post

    We had just over 30, so a little bigger but Iour schedule was something like this:

    2PM Wedding (actually started at 2:30 since MIL was 20 minutes late)
    3:00-4:30 Social Hour with Mariachis, we took pictures during this time
    4:45-6:15 Food, toasts, thank yous and cake
    6:30 or so - we watched the sunset from the room of the house
    7:00 or so - we all hit the pool and hot tub

    We kept it super simple... I was worried about having a father daughter dance, cake cutting, all the other traditional things people do, but we really only had a little push back from MIL when we didn't cut the cake in front of everyone. I think the key is to keep things flowing. People liked that it wasn't a traditional wedding.


  3. I'm a bit conflicted on this, I kinda feel like I'm not a little girl to be "given away" I"m freaking 33 and paying for this! But I know my dad would be disappointed.

     

    soooo I'm thinking I might want my FI and I to walk down the aisle together. Maybe have my mom and dad come in together, then his mom(no dad) , then us. It seems more appropriate at this stage in our lives.

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