Ours is about $30,000 including everything (engagement ring, dress, airfare, accomodations, ceremony, reception, honeymoon). But my parents are giving us $20,000 as a wedding gift, so I guess it's actually $10,000. A big chunk of money goes to our honeymoon. We're spending 8 days in Playa Del Carmen and 10 days in Greek isles. It's cheap compared what we would have spent at home. My cousin and her husband (both lawyers) spent $70,000 on their wedding!