Yep, I agree! We have decided to be married in NY by a justice of the peace. We are calling it our "legal union" and just inviting our grandparents (who can't make it to Aruba), our parents and immediate family. You would be surprised as to how many people are pissed that they didn't get invited. But the way I see it is, it is something we have to do in NY to get our license and our "real" is on the beach in Aruba, which is why we are calling it a "legal union", haha.