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  1. I don't know if this is the right place to post this, but you ladies are always so helpful, I figured why not.

     

    The girls chose this dress:

    David's Bridal - Strapless Jersey A-line with Pleating and Ruched Charmeuse Bust

     

    In the Horizon color.

     

    They tried it on and loved it...except for the MOH. She wants to shorten it because she thinks it will be too hot for Mexico. I have to somewhat agree, I was surprised they picked out long dresses.

     

    I can't ask the other girls to shorten their dresses since they like it long and they are already spending money they don't have.

     

    I want to know your opinion on having the bridesmaids with long dresses and the MOH with the same dress but shortened. Do you think it will look odd?

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    Originally Posted by Lady_Di View Post
    haha, i wish...i hear that security guards there are hawks so that probably won't happen. i think we may get more people coming but they are not staying at the resort. my FI's aunt is bringing her sister/brother to the wedding. my godmother might bring more people. they are staying off resort. it looks like we would have to draw a line and tell them that they only can bring one person per person. we just can't afford $100 for every non resort guest. i think our guests think it's free for us and that we don't have to pay anything since the wedding is at all inclusive resort.

    god forbid we pay $100 for 10 or more people. goodnight.gif

    Oh no! That is awful! The majority of my guests were under the assumption that it is all inclusive so me and FI don't pay for anything....boy are they wrong! Maybe you can drop the hint about it without coming out rude. At the very least they should give you money to cover themselves as a "wedding gift". So if you get the word to them then maybe they can slip you some money in a card. Couldn't hurt!
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    Originally Posted by Lisa DSO View Post
    Does anyone else worry about rain (or worse a hurricane) as much as I do? I mean, I am grateful that it would be moved into a ballroom (i think?), but well, the whole purpose it to be outside on the beach lol.
    I ALWAYS worry about this! I can't imagine not getting married out by the beach! That is the whole point afterall. My TA told me that April is their rainy season, but I don't see that anywhere else. I booked in May just to make sure!
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    Originally Posted by mykidsmomtx View Post
    You can change/upgrade your package at anytime (within reason). At first I thought we were "locked in" to our package when we made our deposit, but were reassured we can change packages later. Heck, it usually is just more money for them!
    What if we already paid in full? Can we change the package then? It will probably benefit me financially more than them.
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    Originally Posted by Daily2011 View Post
    Thanks BTB1515! I know how hard it is to not sweat the small stuff and get carried away. Everytime I read a post about something cool someone else has set up at their reception I keep thinking I can do that too... Eventually the budget and the KISS theory wins out but as I get closer I can totally see myself not being able to hold back. Everyone here is such a big help though.

    Christa.
    Not sure how long you have been on the forum, but if you go under the General Forum there is a DIY forum. Check it out. They have great templates and cheap do it yourself kits.
  6. Quote:
    Originally Posted by Daily2011 View Post
    Bridetobe1515: I really don't care about many of the details. Everyone keeps asking me about colors, etc and I don't care. I have one BM/MOH, my BF. I don't care what she wears. I keep telling her to just pick something that she will wear again and she looks good in. She keeps asking if this cut or color is ok...I DON'T CARE. I don't care about flowers or cake or what's for dinner. I just want to get married to Jeff and have a great time celebrating it with our friends and family. That is why I am doing a DW. Limit the choices and let someone else do all the work. At the end of the day, I will be married to the man I love and that is what matters.

    Christa.
    That is great!!! I was the same way. If you keep it simple then you will have a fantastic time! You don't have to sweat the small stuff!
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    Originally Posted by aerazo View Post
    Fellow brides getting married in April -

    Does anyone know if its humid in PLaya in April? or has anyone been there at that time of the year ?

    I want to wear my hair down on my wedding day more than anything, but i have curly hair and if its humid, i will have a big fro! =(

    Thanks!
    Adriana
    I'm getting married in mid May and the WC said that it gets very humid. Plus some of my guests have stressed that I shouldn't wear my hair down since they have been there around this time.
    You ladies are going to laugh at me, but I decided to get this for my mom, the FMI and the bridesmaids. They are called Cleavage Coolers. I got it for my mom for xmas since she has hot flashes as a joke, and she uses it all the time in the summer now!!! Too funny!
    Cleavage Coolers

    There are other sites out there that carry different colored ones too if you do a google search. I love it!rofl.gif
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    Originally Posted by Daily2011 View Post
    You all rock! Thank you so much for the information. It is all becoming clearer now. When do you have to select the package? I mean I won't know if I have the free + a la carte option until much later. And once you select the package can you change your choice?

    Also, several of you have said you are very frustrated with the pre-planning service. As I am just beginning to make this choice, would you change if you could? Is it that bad? Everyone has loved their wedding, but I'd be lying if I told you I wasn't nervous entering into it with those complaints out there. I do have to say that we are not looking for micro control over things. As a matter of fact I am planning a DW because I don't want to plan it all.
    It sounds like you are a lot like me. I had the same attitude about not wanting to plan one. The truth is you actually invest more time than usual in a DW. The responses back are usually unclear so it can be frustrating. I just stuck it out and planned everything myself, not relying on the resort at all. So it did cause more work for me than normal. I wouldn't take it back though! I know once I'm overlooking the beach while sayiing "I Do" it will be the right decision. You just have to take the leap and deal with it until it's that time. No worries, it will be great!
  9. Hey girls, I'm sooooooooooo happy to find this thread!

    I have already gone through my 90 day lean program, and whew it was tough. I did go from 148 to 133 though. So 15lbs! BTW...I never did the yoga, I would just sub in cardio.

    I now just started the classic program since I want to gain muscle and it is so hard! I find that I can't do plyometrics since my knees are bad, so I sub in cardio. I also still do cardio on the yoga days since I HATE YOGA! I actually started to notice some definition, but i'm not where I want to be yet.

    I tried the diet, did anyone else? I finally just took myself off of it and stayed on the healthy track! It was getting to be expensive!

    I just wanted to jump in and tell you all that you should keep up with it because it works! I feel great! Being sore will just become a part of you now. LOL! Sounds bad, but you won't even realize you are actually sore anymore since you are use to it. I love love love P90X!

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