Alyssa,
Sorry I didn't mean to offend you, or anyone on the forum. It is an amazing forum. I was just thinking from my standpoint, because I have very limited time (I work about 80 hours per week) and visit this website for ideas for my destination wedding. So far I do not have a lot of experience planning a destination wedding, so I was just thinking that I did not have a ton of suggestions, etc to add to the forum, or the time to make 150 posts. I, in no way, meant to criticize the forum and have found some great information here.
I think that emails and postings can be taken out of context and hard to distinguish the tone and I think you misread my intended tone.
Toni