I just booked our wedding this weekend in Isla Mujeres (Cancun) for Oct 24th so not only are people freaking because of swine flu, but that it is during hurricane season and they are predicting more activity than usual! Here is the thing I have come to realize (not on my own of course but with the help of my friends). Who ever is meant to be there will and those who don't come, don't come! No big deal! You have a dinner or something when you get home. It's about you and your husband, not the guests (I realize easier said than done)! But go, enjoy, and let the only rolling around in the hay be in the bedroom! =)