Hello SimplenSweet. Thanks for the info re the reception. I didn't realize the cruise was an option. More decisions I was just assigned a new WC, Bianca and she seems really nice, accomodating and patient. I'm probably going with the Chill Out Chic package with very simple touches. I, too, will have to pay additional for guests because the package only covers 24 and right now we're at 38 and counting. Again, we opted for the destination wedding to alleviate the stress that can be caused by large families (mine) and because my fiance loves the beach. We will be staying at the resort for our honeymoon for an additional 10 days. I'm hoping this will afford us an upgrade to the Reserve at minimal charge. Just starting to work with a local company to determine shipping things ahead of time but reading some of the other bride's experiences has me a little nervous. I was thinking of shipping things like cases of water, welcome bags, fans etc. Anyone have any advise or recent experiences with this? I'm listening. Good luck to all of you who are planning your weddings and maybe our paths will cross during our visit to the DR.