You are NOT alone!!!! You have found the perfect site!!! We have alot in common... I, too was engaged in December, like you... we both knew it had to be a destination wedding at a hotel that would be small, yet not too expensive, all-inclusine (because we figured it would make everyones life easier) and allow children because we want our nieces and nephews and my fiance's god-son to be there. We have yet to choose our place but are doing so in April when we go down to scout for a weekend. We have narrowed our hotels from 23 down to 7!!!!!!! Look into Dreams Tulum ( find Jason and ask him... he is getting married there), and Azul Beach.
Don't fret, the girls on here are soooooo helpful!