Hi all, I am pretty new to this forum. The amount of infomation is overwelhming and the ladies are so helpful. A little about us... My hubby and I were married on April 20, 2009. I always went back and forth with the feeling of wanting to have a wedding ceremony but not wanting to deal with all the hassle that comes along with it. ie. Family drama, money, planning, etc. So we simply married at the courts and I let go of the want to be in a beautiful dress and have all my loved ones witness the union between my long time love and I. However that want did not completely disappear. We decided that we would renew our vows after our third year of marriage but had to change plans due to expecting a new baby. Our second son together. Now that we are embarking on our fifth year of marriage I've started putting the word in freiends and family's ear, looking up dresses. Speaking with a travel agent, starting DIY save the dates...and I'm asking myself....do I really want this? LOL.
Tell me am I the only one having doubts? I feel like this is supposed to be one of the happiest times in my life, Planning a wedding, but its already seems so stressful. I am a perfectionist when it comes to planning events so is it just fear that everything wont turn out the way I want it? Am I just overwelhmed but the amount of work it is going to require???? Help! Please tell me I'm not the only one who feels this way.