I'm so glad I found you guys! You're a wealth of knowledge! I'm still waiting for the judge to confirm my date, but we're shooting for 6*22*13! I was thinking about shipping boxes with bouquets, welcome bags, etc. I pray that's a good choice. I have so many questions....has anyone done the buffet? It seems really pricey, but its the only option for us! I could NEVER make 1 food choice for every guest. That's just silly! I'm thinking of renting the music equipment too and doing the iPod thing. Glad to hear it worked for some of you. $500 is a lot of money to spend on a dj when you may not even like any of his music! Anyone do a farewell brunch or anything for the day after or the Sunday after? How were prices?