So our wedding is now two months away and in the past two months we have had three couples back out. Most recently, one of our groomsmen and his girlfriend because he started a new job and they won't give him the time off. So because we are renting a villa, and took the overall cost and divided it by the amount of people coming, we are now on the hook to pay the rest of their rooms!! And have no idea where that money is going to come from. We have filled one room already and another friend is going to let us know, but I am so frustrated. Why do people commit to something, put a lot of money down and then just walk away. The worst part, the other two couples (my aunt and uncle and FI's aunt and uncle) didn't even have the balls to say it to our face. My aunt sent me a message on Facebook!!! And his aunt e-mailed him. I am just so sick of people ruining this for us.
And with the groomsmen it's not even the money thing. He is supposed to be in our wedding party and two months before he suddenly backs out? We are going to try and talk to them this weekend and see if he can get a few days off then they can at least come for a few days and be there for the wedding.
Every single wedding-related event has been ruined by someone. Everyone has created so much drama I really can't handle anymore!!! If one more thing goes wrong I might actually have a nervous breakdown.
Worst part is I am going to my first fitting tonight and am terrified the dress won't fit. I am a stress eater, and even though I have been working out, I think it might be snug and I am terrified of that!!!!
Sorry for sharing my frustrations but I think I might snap!!!!
Other than that I am excited that is two months away!!! Soon I will be in the sun with close friends and family!!!