Ok, I'll start from the beginning with this. I have been dating my FI for 6 years now. I've been looking forward to the wedding day for the last 5 and EVERYONE knows this. We got engaged last November and planned our wedding for May 28, 2011. My sister got engaged (when he put the ring on) on July 4th this year. They have been dating for 9 months and have been talking about getting married for the last 5 months. I picked my date before they started this talk about getting married. Mind you, I am the oldest (25) and she is 21. So, here is where the problem begins ...
My sister asked orginally if she could get married first and I flat out said no. I've been waiting on this day for so long and how dare you try to get married first when I was engaged first. So, then she decides to have the wedding 2 months after min, which means that our parents are paying for 2 weddings in one year. I picked purple, gray and cream for my colors and she later picked purple and silver for hers. I picked my bridesmaids dresses and she asked could hers wear the same since we are going to have 2 of the same bridesmaids. She asked whether my daughter, both of our flower girl, wear the dress she's wearing to my wedding to hers. She asked whether she can borrow the jewelry I plan to get to her wedding, and we're sharing table linen. I have said yes to everything except the bridesmaids dresses because my wedding is first and everyone will know she's borrowing my stuff.
Today, she asks AGAIN, whether they can get married first and use my wedding as their honeymoon! I wanted to have a conniption. I just simply said, I would prefer that you wait but do whatever you want. I'M FUMING. I can't believe she had the audacity to go back to that.
How do I handle this?