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I don't know what to do...need to vent!

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Michelle, do you want me to beat up your mother-in-law so she'll back off?


No, seriously, it's YOUR wedding, no one else's. (And let's be honest, it's not really about the groom either - HA!) You guys need to decide on what you want and stick to it. Like you said, you know you can't accommodate everyone. So don't even try. If anyone has a problem with not being there, then let them rearrange their schedules to make it work.


I like the idea of stating on your invites that you're eloping and anyone that wants to come, can come.


Let me know if I can do anything for you.

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Thanks Jen...I might take you up on that offer! :)


Update: I am crazy and I folded. I changed the date back to our original (May 26, 200cool.gif We made a decision about what would be the best date and not really who we wanted there most but who we felt would appreciate us changing the date for and would be a definate show vs. who wasn't a guarantee and the vendors were all available so we switched it!!! But I am going to book travel I think this next week and once that is done...I can't change again...so it is what it is!!!!! :)


THanks for everyone's help! :)

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Great! You said the couple who would've missed it is a lot of fun so it will be great to have them there. I think the main thing is to set it in stone now so you don't have to change again. Then you will be stress free!!!

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