I hired an outside photographer and asked if I could swap the resort photographer out for something else. I wasn't able to do that, but they told me I could use the resort photographer for the rehersal, or welcome dinner or cocktail hour. So while my husband and I were off with the hired photographer, the resort photographer took pictures during the cocktail hour. He took more than 50, but then gave us a disc with just 50 on it. I think it is fine to use them for the trash the dress.