Hi there, 1) You can only choose ONE item for every guest, it's not like a traditional wedding reception where guests have a choice of beef, chicken or fish. etc. So you would pick one appetizer, one entree and one dessert that every person will have. I believe they make an exception for a vegetarian and any children. 2) I've never heard of anyone wanting to use the conference center for a reception but that's a question I'd ask Carolina about. 3) I don't see why you couldn't have a signature cocktail for your cocktail hour. That is assuming you're talking about the cocktail hour you'd be paying for in addition to the one that is included in your package, again I would clarify that with Carolina. If you go on this particular thread you'll find the answer to a lot of questions. http://www.bestdestinationwedding.com/t/14643/married-or-going-to-be-married-at-grand-palladium-punta-cana