Hi ladies, So now that I have my date, and my place...I am still contemplating whether or not I should have a "private reception" I really wanted the first dance, and feeling of the dinner being in honor of us. I will probably have about 35-40 guests (so far ). What are everyone's plans in terms of after the ceremony? We are having the sky deck at 4:00 and I haven't decided on anything else. HELP!