Hey there - no worries at all. Let me see if I can help you! We didnt do any group tours, but the animation team member did take us to Coco Bongo (highly recommended you go there - such a fun night club!). We didnt get rose petals so I cant help you there. Id say do the beach over lizards as lizards is more 'inward' on the resort and no ocean view. I think lights around the palm trees would be super cute - go for it! We didnt get a signature cocktail at our reception althgouh that sounds really cool! We brought about 1500 cash just to be safe...Some how we ended up using it but I cant even think of what we spent it on...LOL! We did bring our own decorations for the aisle chairs and then they went on the tables at dinner! I didnt want to pay for fresh flowers and Im very crafty so I just brought them. Hope this helps - ask anything else you need to