hi girls, thanks for the updates I can live with the $12.60 per person I guess; it just seems a little cheeky to have people pay so much for an all inclusive holiday and then have to pay extra! But maybe they have to have additional staff to cover the private party so I can understand that. Still trying to work out if the Ultimate Wedding is the right option for me.... there are so many things included in the package that I dont require, such as a hairdresses (my sister is one and will be coming with me) and the various other things like make up, assistance with dressing etc. I am only going to have approximately 30 people so will only have to pay for the additional ten on top of the package, but i'm not too keen on the menus... and I think I would also like to upgrade the photographer... hmmm decisions decisions!! oooh I just thought another question someone may be able to answer... I am catholic but am not too fussed about whether I have a religious ceremony or not. However I definitely dont want to get married before I arrive in dominican - our guests are travelling all the way from Ireland after all so I want them to see the real thing! however I am not too keen on the whole spanish judge thing. is this the only way to get legally married in dominican? If so I noticed some of you mentioning a pastor rick - Do you think I could have a spiritual style cermony with pastor rick and then go off inside the hotel somewhere with a couple of witnesses and have the legal ceremony with the judge? sorry for all the questions but it has been 9 days and still no reply from Tiara! Poor girl must be snowed under