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  1. To answer a couple of questions thrown my way recently: I didn't have table overlays so I never investigated the size of the tables. I think the measurements of tables are somewhere on this thread if I remember correctly. I was supposed to have between 6 and 8 people at each of my tables (I've heard they hold 10 but with the way I wanted the seating arrangement, I ended up with less people at each table). Our reception was moved inside so I never even saw the round tables up close. I probably shouldn't give advice on this subject. I didn't have bridesmaids so I didn't have to think about the order of announcing at the reception. However, the 9 (count 'em) times I've been a bridesmaid, I was paired up with whomever I walked down the aisle with and we were announced last bridesmaid entering first then on down the line to to the first bridesmaid/MOH and finally bride and groom (if that helps). I googled a lot of different reception schedules to figure out my order of events. We did not end up ordering the appetizers on the catamaran cruise. I thought long and hard about picking up our own snacks at the Costco or something in Cancun but we decided it wasn't worth the hassle. If people are hungry (or sober) while staying at an all-inclusive, it's their own fault! Ha! We told guests there was only going to be alcohol on the cruise so they should plan their eating schedule accordingly. No one complained! Kad1010 - I just tried sending you the documents twice and I got a failure to deliver notice. I copied and pasted the address... is there another address you'd like me to try?
  2. A few more things: 1) I can send anyone documents you might want to copy or use as a starting point for your own weddings. Mine were primarily stolen from other brides on this website or the internet - just passing the baton. 2) My husband and I were going over the checking account today and noticed the hotel lobby ATM charged $60 for a $360 withdrawal (it gave USD). We marched into the bank and discovered that it was that Mexican bank/that specific ATM who charged the fees. When we left the resort for the remainder of our trip, the ATMs did not have any unexpected fees. Just an FYI. 3) LindsayMichelle: I asked Veronica for a copy of the script quite a while ago and then double checked with her that the officiant still used that script just before the wedding. I'm not sure if I have an original copy, but if Veronica had it I'm sure it's on file somewhere. Let me know if you can't get a hold of a copy. 4) I also recommend getting the heck out of Dreams a day or two after the wedding. We loved our wedding, but we loooved the quiet time we had staying at a little casita down the coast (and away from family).
  3. Here are some more words of wisdom from a married lady… I’ll try to focus on stuff that might be new or different from what’s been posted. I tried to keep my whole wedding simple because that was the point of a destination wedding for me. I didn’t get many extras or bring much of anything down. Travel etc. I had a family member in the travel business help me set up the room block and rates. I stepped out after that and my guests each made their own flight reservations, transfers, and then the hotel reservations using the Dreams website and our group code. I thought this would be a whole lot easier on me and it was! Planning I went through two coordinators during my planning, and then the day I showed up in Mexico, I got a third. It really wasn’t a big deal because I kept the information all in one Excel document/list. I suggest keeping in mind that the coordinators do this at least twice a day seven days a week, they have experienced it all. It was ME who had never done this before. I kept that same philosophy in mind with DJ’s (I went through three with all of the rule changes), photographers (I went through two), room/group coordinators (I had 2 ½), etc. Just be prepared for the changes that will inevitably happen! In the end everything was perfect and we ended up married and no one died! I suggest starting a list using the package details from the hotel’s wedding guide and then expanding on the list as you ask questions and decide on more details. Add pictures of examples and non-examples of details you like. Send this back and forth as a whole or in sections to your coordinator. Also record the dates when you and your coordinator agree on details and prices. I simply had to state that a price was quoted to me as cheaper in a previous email and the cheaper price was honored. I did have the email to back it up, but never had to present it. This was all I really brought down to Mexico. Resort I think there has already been a lot on how the resort is very clean and the staff is very friendly. The food was good, steak seemed to be a favorite of our guest at many of the different restaurants. There are two times (11:00ish and 5:00ish) where things shut down for about an hour to switch over to lunch or dinner so nothing is technically open although we figured out ways around this. Also, each restaurant rotates being closed for dinner every night (this actually helped us out later). Rooms/Upgrades Our only real issue was with the room block people. In our room block contract we received “VIP†upgrades and a complimentary gift (champagne) that we wanted to give to our parents. My husband’s mom never received her champagne. I had to keep asking about this and show my contract because no one claimed that it was their responsibility (reception, concierge, or the wedding department). One of the Preferred Club reception guys was pretty pompous about it, but the champagne finally showed up in her room 2 days in to the trip. We also had a question about the number of rooms we had reserved in our contract that never got answered for the same reason of no one knowing whose responsibility it was. I finally spoke with the guy on the last day and took all my courage (I hate confrontation) to say, “I guess the positive thing we learned here is that there is a communication disconnect here at the resortâ€. Take that Room Guy! I’m sure that wasn’t as big of an event in his life as it was mine. Meeting We went to our meeting with Veronica on Friday and we were met with Ana who told us that Veronica didn’t work there anymore and she would be taking over. "OK" I said and we moved on. Most stuff was already taken care of via email. I gave her my décor, we cleared up confirmation numbers for hair and make-up, groom’s room, and the included spa treatments. Then I meet with the DJ (I never caught his name but he was with Visual Sound) and Photographer (Anel’s co-worker from Adventure Photos). “Rehersal†We wanted to thank our guests for making the trip so we rented a catamaran through CancunDiscounts. It was the best thing we could have done! Our guests loved this. It cost us about $2,300 for 45 guests on the boat, open bar, and transfers (vs. $1,500 or so for a private dinner that they technically already paid for by being at an all inclusive). Just be careful when navigating the CancunDiscounts website. Certain boats dock in certain marinas and it we reserved a boat that we didn’t think we were getting. It worked out in the end, but I suggest calling the 1800 number and going about it that way. Ceremony/Reception I brought hair and make-up pictures to the salon and things went fine. I might suggest a trial with the hair for humidity purposes. The stylist was great and fixed the shade of brown I wasn't into on my eyeshadow, no problems just ask! My hair did some interesting things with the humidity and the hair spray. I didn’t want to rack up the budget on decorations or schlep a million decorations down to Cancun so I only brought chair sashes and napkins bought off of eBay. In the end I got ambitious and brought some votives which I wrapped in vellum and put LED candles in as centerpieces but it probably wasn’t needed. A friend of mine and I had a conversation about centerpieces once and it went something like this: Me: I don’t know what to do about centerpieces. Friend: Do you remember the centerpieces at my wedding? Me: Um, no… Friend: That’s ‘cause there were none. No one cares! Ha! That still cracks me up! I saw another wedding being set up during my stay that did not have centerpieces and it definitely did not look bare, the scenery takes over! The ceremony was at 4:00 on the North Beach. I just had the chair sashes, the included white fabric on the arch, and the included ceremony centerpiece. They set out some conch shells and kept people from running around in the background (someone told me later). The technician screwed up the songs and didn’t have the microphone working for the officiant at first, but again, we still ended up married! This is the one part I would have someone double check for you (you’ll be getting ready or taking pictures when he sets up). I suggest treating this like a 1 hour DJ. Give him some songs (5 or6) to play while gusts are being seated. My technician played some really sappy stuff that none of my friends will tell me about except to say that I would have died (I’m not at all sappy). Give him your wedding party song, bridal march, recessional, and then 3 or 4 songs to play after the ceremony when you’re doing the champagne toast with your guests. I did not check the box on my to do list that said “talk with technician†and that would be my only regret. I spent too much time turning my entrance song from 4 minutes to 2 minutes, fading things in and out, making CD’s and backups, and in the end, it didn’t happen the way I planned. Oh well! I met the officiant when I got down to the end of the aisle during the wedding (she has done millions of weddings according to my husband who had time to befriend her). She was great. I got a copy of her “typical†script, took out a few sappy parts, added a few personal lines and called it good. I couldn’t handle the idea of writing the entire ceremony. Several people asked about the ceremony and said it was “so personalâ€. Actually it was 95% her regular stuff! Those 3 lines I added were enough. We walked back down the aisle, did the champagne toast and pictures, then the husband and I took pictures with Anel while the guests went to the Barracuda Bar. I sprung for the all day package or whatever is $999. I gave her one of my lists with picture ideas (90% stolen from internet searches). It had a few examples and a few “no ways†(I refused to do gazing into one another’s eyes pictures – too sappy). In the end though, I told her to take really wacky pictures and to get creative because it was her profession not mine. The Marriachi band was scheduled for 5:15-6:00. They were tons of fun! We headed back to mingle with the guests, listen the band, and take a few candid shots. We then headed BACK out with Anel to take some pictures in other parts of the hotel while our guests headed for the reception. Our reception started at 6:15 and went to 10:15 (I traded the cocktail hour for extra reception time). The reception was supposed to be on the beach while another wedding was on the pool deck that night. It RAAAAAIIIIIINED like crazy that morning and Ana told me she thought the ceremony would be OK on the beach but wanted to move the reception to a ballroom. I politely gathered my confrontation skills to say “no stinking wayâ€. I didn’t come to Mexico to have non-memorable ballroom reception (for which I had zero decorations). She got back to me later and said we could have the reception in Portifino. REMEMBER THIS! There is always a restaurant closed any night of the week so you should have options if you get rained out. This was actually great, even though it didn’t rain that night, it was so flipping humid we were grateful to have AC!!! Honestly, I didn’t see a beach reception the whole time I was there and wonder if the hotel is moving away from beach receptions. It would have been way too close to the pool deck reception if it did happen as planned. The staff greeted my guests at Portifino with a martini (not my idea, but an added surprise), then we were announced, danced our first dance, had dinner (the Mexican Buffet was surprisingly some of the better food we had), did the toast, cut the cake, did the parent dances, and partied down. The order of events wasn’t the order I gave the DJ, but it really didn’t matter. I gave him a list (that’s right ladies, another list) of several songs and highlighted some that HAD to be played. I also listed songs that there was no flipping way he could play. I left the order of songs and the rest up to his professional judgment. I don’t think I heard a song that we didn’t’ list. I wish he would have announced which tables could go to the buffet, so I simply went and asked him to - no point in wishing about it when I can actually do something about it. In Summary Get yourself some list making skills! Save emails! I don’t know if you need to bother to print them all. You could print them at the resort in the Preferred Lounge if need be. Don’t forget the coordinators and other professionals do this more than once a day and trust them (it helps take stress off you)! Don’t be afraid to ask for things or follow up on details. Double check the technician situation, but everything else seems to be ironed out at the resort so kick back and relax!
  4. I have a question (or 12 questions) about music during the ceremony for anyone who was married on the North beach. How long of a song should I plan for my entrance? Do my dad and I have somewhere to sort of "hide" before the ceremony begins? How far is that from the ceremony site? I'm having a hard time picturing it all. Thanks Ladies!
  5. Leanne, I would love a copy of your spreadsheets/timeline as well. I don't know if mine is up to par and would love a comparison if you're willing to share! Thanks, cbnelsEn@yahoo.com
  6. We arrive June 9th and are getting married June 13th. Once we hit the one month mark the other day, it become a little more real (better get my A in gear)!
  7. If anyone is looking for the centerpiece/menu choices, I found this website on the Dreams Facebook page. http://www.vacationagent.net/destinationweddings.html
  8. I am in the same situation and I'm getting the same vibe from Veronica. She offered me the lighted dance floor for $300 if I used Visual Sound (it started at $700, then $580. I think I saw someone got it for free on this thread). She also wanted to know my reasons for not wanting to book Visual Sound. I haven't responded to her and I was hoping to get some advice from you all as far as if Visual Sound has improved enough from their first reviews to consider using them.
  9. What are you all doing for a "welcome event"? We considered a sunset cruise at first but don't know if we want to spend that much. A dinner doesn't appeal to us because it's an all inclusive and won't feel special but still cost a good amount. I saw that some other hotels do bonfires on the beach but I haven't seen that at Dreams. I'm now considering not doing an event and just beefing up the OOT bags with better stuff and handing those out at a "cocktail party" (having everyone meet at one of the bars) early in the trip. Ideas???
  10. I'm also curious about how to do the ceremony music with timing and everything. Are you all writing your own ceremony or using the resort's script? I've ditched the sand ceremony, but I don't know that I want to take on changing the whole script...
  11. I just heard from Rodrigo as well (via email). I'm glad to hear you were put at ease. What does it mean to have Rodrigo MC vs. DJ? What role would he play? I'm still a little bit raging about the whole DJ thing. I suppose there is no point to complaining when the wedding is getting close and there really isn't anything we can do about all of this. I did write a strongly worded email that went something like this: What the flip Dreams? This is the second DJ that's been swiped from me. I get that Dreams has policies, but it's really not fair to pull the rug out from brides weeks before their wedding. Wouldn't the right thing to do be let brides keep their plans with DJ, and then be sure not to schedule with that DJ in the future? I'm having a hard time making any decisions with Dreams knowing you won't keep your word or have any remose about it either. The response from my wedding coordinator went something like this: It will be ok. sigh. I'll move on now.
  12. I'm thinking about the DJ situation along with a lot of others on here. I was just told that my reception would be 3 hours. How are you using the DJ's 5 hours if the reception is only 3 hours long? Will he be the sound guy at the ceremony for you? Maybe some of you are paying for extra reception time? Thanks!
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