kowie

The colours are really pretty. With the jackets they will look great.

I am going through the same thing too. I think the main thing is that you have your close friends with you and celebrating you day. If you give them an option of stepping down (by the sounds of it) I think they would be grateful. In my instance, I thought the chance of half of the guests wearing the same outfit might look a bit silly - so I got rid of the bridal party all together and have assigned tasks to my closest friends that are attending

I have ordered quite a few things off the vistaprint site (thought it was .com.au because I am in Australia) You can do your own design or get someone to help you and once you upload it you can use it as many times as you want. Although there may be a fee for the upload I sometimes get emails with free upload offers

Hi there I am a newbie from Australia. After being suprised with my engagement ring a month ago I am now planning a destination wedding in Hawaii!!! Yay so excited - hopefully in Feb 2010 (not set on a date yet)