Cole5worm

YOU GUYS ARE SOOOOO AMAZING!!! Thank for all of our support! I was telling my FI how great you all are! I think I will hit the weights more and tan and hopefully change my mental image!

 

Thank you again for all the wonderful things and advice you have all given me

I WANTED TO DO THIS SOOO BAD! of if not the ring maybe the date or something.. that way it is always a part of you.. if you do it.. let me know if it hurts.. lol

Okay so i don't mean to laugh but i have too! I don't think you are beign unreasonable! silly BM! Why do they think they have to look soooo good! the day should be about you.. I know i have worn some things taht I hated but you do it ! thats your job! not that my bridesmaids have been any eaiser on me.. lol...

 

 

so i feel for you!

Okay girls here you go.. all i see is my fat arms.. i swear it is the last place the weight came off.. i mean i was a size 18 sometimes 18w and now I am at a 13 but by boobs and arms are not loosing it!!!

 

 

 

 

Well thanks ladies! I promise I will post a picture in about one hour! count down begins. I will be doing the hands on the hips.. i shoud have done that in the store! live and learn!

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Originally Posted by Cole5worm You are so right. It's like you still feel like you look like you used to. It's hard to change your mind! COLOR]

It is so hard! I wander why that is... you'd think that you'd be like YES YES YES but all i see is flabby arms in a strapless dress haha.. oh well i beter hit the weights

Well I guess the reason I don't like it is that i hate my arms.. i feel like they are the biggest sausages in the WORLD! I'll post a pic tonight when i get home. I didn't have the picture takeing with all me stuff on so I am hopeing that helps!

 

I am proud of lose the weight but you know its hard to get in the mind set of that.

 

Oh and as for casey and the ear piece.. we were at the gym and he was just trying to take his head phones out of his fat ear and the little piece fell out.. haha.. 250 bucks later we got it out!!! now he uses the old school head phones.. lol!!!

Okay so I just had my first fitting... I have lost 65 lbs and I thought man I might actually pull this off. When i see myself in person in teh dress I think it looks BEAUTIFUL

 

BUT.... when i look at the pictures I take in it i feel like i look HORRIBLE

 

This really Bugs Me! I am nervous I am going to hate all my weddding picutures! It isn't suspose to be like this! I am suspose to love my wedding stuff!!!!

I love everything! If i could go back I woudl pick the orange color! AMAZING!

Do you have a runner. I have seen some girls on here who have outlined there isle SP? sorry horrible speller but yes outlined it in many different things.. seashells, rose petals, teki tourches.... that sould be an idea. I think my mom is actually ordering a runner. HTH

you guys are lucky! I just had my alterations and I do not get it back until May 2!!!

ahh I am sorry! I try and tuck the band into my bra for safe keeping!

So that is why there are like the real ones!! lol

I just wanted you all to know if you didn't already but i bet you did because we all love TARGET soooo much but they have immitation Spanx. They are just like the real ones except there is no... pee hole.. sorry i know gross.. it doesn't bother me because i pull them down anyways.. always afraid i will pee on them lol .. anyways they have them at targer for 20 insetad of like teh 34-70 at some places for the real ones!

I have my first dress fitting SUNDAY!!! So girls, if i lose more weight between my 1st dress fitting and my final fitting is it goign to cost more to get it taken it I still want to lose 20 more lbs and I am a little nervous about this.

 

Do you guys have any tips or pointers to know before I get to put on my LOVELY dress

That is the one my friend looked good in yay!!!! thank you!!

Okay this was so much harder then I thought it was going to be! I have one BM who has calitis which made her gain a lot of wight so the dress process really depended on whatever she felt comfortable in. I wanted to find cheap dresses becasue they are coming down to mexico.. well VS is has there dress on sale yay for like 29.99 each!!

 

I am letting them either all get different ones or picking two different styles in this color!

 

What do you think??

 

 

 

 

 

I already sent out the invites.. i just siad in the evening.. if it is more afternoon everyone should be there by then anyways. but i dont' want to sweat my butt off.. ewww

So very True!!! I have the date confirmed. I guess i am just wanting confirmation on the time of the event and when dinner. I am getting everything done at the resort so like my hair and photos are all being taken care by her... oh well.. I sent a long email asking these questions. So hopefully by the end of the week she will address some of my concerns!

thanks for making me feel a little better ladies! i guess if it isn't perfect who cares no wedding is. I don't know why i stress about the stupidest things (OOT bags) silly me

ahhhh now i am freaking out. She sent me a packet of prices and what not and confirmed by email that my date was available but that is about it.. Hopefully she gets back to me soon with all the questiosn I answered soon. She told me that 2 months before teh wedding is when we start making plans.. but to me that seems a little close.. I mean i know you make most of your decisions when you get down theere but I don't know........

I am coming on up 3 and a half months until my wedding. I just emailed my WC because I would like to get a more detailed schedule on my wedding events. I know I asked for an evening wedding but I do not even know what time my wedding is goign to be at. Is this normal. When did your WC contact you girls?

 

I am either walking down to Cannon D or Unchained melody instrumental on the piano. That is the song we both love and were probably going to have our first dance to but I am not sure if we are going to have a first dance. so I wanted to put it in!

My wedding party is going to walk down to it!

I would love to know too!!!!

Thanks for posting.. I need to get My FI and his boys in gear!!!