I'm no help but I just wanted to let you know I am looking at both of those resorts as well and can't decide. I think I might be leaning toward the Dreams a little more though. I plan to go to a travel agency tomorrow. If I find anything of significance between the two, I will let you know. If we do go with dreams, I think we are just doing the package that includes the hors d'oeuvres and then try to all be seated at a restaurant together (but I'm only having about 20-25 people there). As far as cost, I think we will price the resort as well as surrounding others + the day pass for guests so they can have choices. I haven't spoken with anyone at either resort to see exactly what the reception options would be other than what is listed on the website. Maybe your best bet would be to contact one of them if you haven't already to get a general idea of prices. Good luck!