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I would want to get home the sooner the better.. personally I would rather be in the air 4 hours than have a medical emergency in some ho-dunk town in Wyoming.

 

Being in a car will take a long time. (I drove WI to southern CA in 3 days, but I drove morning until dark with hardly any stops.) You'll have to stop all the time to feed, burp, and change diapers cuz otherwise she'll be out of her car seat.

 

Renting an RV is expensive too... shoot!

 

Will your insurance help pay for any of the transport costs?

Before you start buying.. keep a list of idea/items you'd like to do.. that way you don't have regrets or spend unnecessary money. Simple is usually better and remember, you'll have to lug all that stuff to your resort! Many girls found super cute bags at the dollar store and target. There are also many ebay vendors for totes. Just depends on how many you need. One per couple worked out great because most guys aren't bringing a bag to the pool/beach. You might wait until towards the end of summer when lots of fun stuff goes on sale, since you have the time.

Honestly I would only hire a professional. Friends and family often do a very good job but you'll need someone that gives gentle direction, can locate photo spots, works with the lighting given, and in general has done it before and can work under the pressure. Being a wedding photographer is allot more than just taking a good photo.

 

BUT, it's up to you.. you just have to be ok with whatever happens.

We've already told friends/family that we don't want visitors at home for the first day or two.. it's really overwhelming but my mom will be staying with us so she'll be there. I'm ok with hospital visits but it is irritating to have people around all the time. Matt and I wanted a private courthouse wedding (before Cabo) and his mom insisted on being there and instead of a romantic dinner afterwards we went to eat with her. It was irritating (even though I know it was important to her). Maybe your SIL doesn't feel the same way about your parents as they feel about her?

 

Your SIL was extremely rude to say that to your parents and if she didn't want visitors, that should mean all visitors. Sounds like she has something against them. Your brother should be the one to explain.

 

I hope it doesn't hurt their relationship in the future.

 

FYI: My DH's mom is extremely opinionated and outspoken... it's a bit much for anyone to handle the criticism sometimes.

I personally would wait for Sarah but if you can't, here's a link..

 

 

Aylee Designs - wedding design and print services including wedding invitations, save-the-dates, programs, favor tags, monograms and more

Sounds like you just used too much glue maybe? I used the same glue as you and it was fine.. I just had to come up with a technique. You have tweezers right? I put a blob of glue onto an old towel and dipped the back of the crystal before putting on my topper.. I set out like 20 various crystals beforehand so I could grab and dip, grab and dip. When the glue dries, it dries clear AND you can grab part of it with your tweezers and pull the extra off. (like glue boogers/rubber cement). The glue is suppose to come up on the sides of the crystals to hold them tight, just not too much... then when you're all done, buff the top of your crystals to make them all shiny. I removes any dullness that extra glue may have caused.

 

Best of luck! I went to target and they gave me a needle applicator but it was too difficult to get the glue into it and then out again. Tell them you only need a few without the needle, otherwise you need a prescription.

 

The other girls had great suggestions too.

Depending on the glue you used, you can scrape them off.. sounds like you have plenty to spare. The key is to use the large, med, small ones and work in a random pattern as you go. All the edges don't need to be exact but the entire front should be covered.. you'll see what sort of gap is created and can place a small one or medium one in that spot (depending where on the letter it falls.)

 

You don't have to do it all in one setting, but you should work on one side and work you way along the letter.. before the glue is dry, you can slide the crystals with your finger (slightly) to adjust if needed. I spent hours on mine but it turned out great!

 

Here's a link to my cake topper thread..

http://bestdestinationwedding.com/forum/t8698

 

You have time so try to not stress!

Rachel, I'm so sorry you and your family are going through this. I don't know any adults with seizures but my friend's little boy had 2 when he was a baby and scared the *hit of out her! The baby was always very hot and I've heard sometimes high fevers (from vaccines or otherwise) can cause them.

 

I hope your aunt figures out what's going and and feels better very soon. Hopefully it is a reaction to something and they can give her something to make it stop.

 

To release her seems crazy.. what if she didn't have family around her?

I think it really again depends on your doctor.. I did a search on The Nest when my face started going crazy. Some girl's doctors said it was fine because you put it on and wash it off that it doesn't really absorb into your blood but others said their doctors said no. Maybe just check to see what your doctor says about it.

I was using CeraVe before I got pregnant and loved it (still have the face lotion) but I ran out and got something else that I don't love (can't even remember what it is). I also have neutrogena in the shower but I've heard great things about Cetaphil and will try this next. I've never had great skin but my 1st trimester I was like a grease pit! Hair and face..my forehead was continually full of bumps! 2nd trimester has been much better. The oil has gone away and I just have the random blemishes that I had before.

 

I found this online:

 

Use gentle soapless cleansers, such as Cetaphil Cleanser, twice daily and resist the urge to scrub or use astringents frequently. These will merely irritate your sensitive skin. Use non-comedogenic facial moisturizers, such as Neutrogena Facial Moisture. If your inflammatory acne persists, your dermatologist can prescribe topical medications that may be safely used during pregnancy.

 

I'm going to try Aveeno Positively Radiant 30 spf Daily moisturizer during the summer. I already have skin discoloration and the sun only makes it worse.. especially while you're pregnant.

Ann.. I can't believe how cute she is. Sorry to hear about her little setback but you know we're all thinking good thoughts about you and your family. She's going to get well and before you know it, she'll be at home with you and Paul! She's such a fighter and so strong for being so little.

 

Keep the photos coming. We love seeing her!

I didn't have shoes, undies, or a veil when I went dress shopping. You'll need your shoes for alterations and you many not have the "correct" undergarments. Just wear something you don't mind the lady helping you with see you in. (I wore nude boy shorts) They'll have corset type bras for you to use. and the veil is just to get the full effect. They'll have veils there for you to hold up to your head. You can always just pick one that looks similar to the one you bought to get an idea of how it will come together.

 

Most girls don't have any of those things until after they find the dress so you're ahead of the game!

Your photos are really beautiful and great review.

 

I do appreciate your point about posting information and other brides demanding the same services. Whenever a bride is able to negotiate a special term, other brides shouldn't 'demand' the same concessions.. and they certainly shouldn't call out a particular bride to get something they want. It's not fair to the bride who was able to negotiate and may jeopardize their relationship with the vendor. I'm glad it all worked out for you.

"Most women find that laying on their right or left side is most comfortable during pregnancy. Laying on your back is not recommended, as this can compress your inferior vena cava. If you compress this vein you'll find your blood flow restricted and you may feel lightheaded while laying down or upon rising. The left sided sleep position is easily achieved with a pregnancy pillow.

 

Most doctors recommend that pregnant women lie on their left side. This promotes optimal blood flow to your body and uterus. If however you find that you are more comfortable on your right side, there is no reason you shouldn't sleep on this side. Most women will also find they need added support while sleeping. This can most easily be accomplished through use of a body pillow. You may find it helps to tuck a body pillow under your belly and legs, and then also use a smaller pillow to support your back so you don't roll over on your back while sleeping.

 

If you do find you rolled onto your back while sleeping, don't panic. Simply roll back onto one of your sides and go back to sleep. Most women will find a position they are comfortable enough in to catch some zzz's. Some women find they do best in a semi-reclined position. You may for example find that you sleep better in a recliner or in a position similar to that a recliner might put you in. If this is the case, go for it. What matters is your comfort, not the exact position you fall asleep in."

Congrats! That's wonderful news! Your family is going to be so excited. Love the shirts.. and you aren't alone with the stressing.. just remember to enjoy every moment.. even the "crappy" ones cuz they make for great stories later.

I asked my doctor about sleeping on your back (and I've read in several books) that said to try to avoid sleeping on your back, but you'll wake up if there's too much pressure or anything like that. If you are a back sleeper, it's easy enough to have a small pillow partially under you so you aren't completely flat (incase you're worried).

 

I'm a side sleeper, unless I'm passed out drunk, which hasn't happened since getting pregnant.

You might consider bringing your MOH's dress to Mexico for this difficult bridesmaid and have your MOH find a dress that's the same color but perhaps a different style. That way all your girls are wearing the same except your MOH.. are they the same size/body style?

 

What's with her not wanting to try on dresses? Maybe ask her if she still wants to be a bridesmaid? Is she doing to be involved in your shower or any projects? If not, what's the point of her being in your wedding party. She could just be there to witness and celebrate with you as a guest. Maybe she's regretting saying yes with everything else going on in her life?

 

Don't let her stress you.. (I know, easier said than done!)

It does get worse.. most days I wake up at 4:30am to pee. This morning I couldn't go back to sleep. Other than that, I'm feeling great! I played cards til Midnight on Saturday and drank my water like a trooper while everyone else had their beverages of choice.

We have the big ultrasound on Thursday to determine the sex! Yay!

Beautiful! I love the color and with the sparkly stuff, I don't think you need anything else. They're elegant and festive now. Sometimes less is more.

 

Congrats!

No! I completely want monitoring.. I wanted to make sure that's something a birthing center would do. I should probably just call them directly and go for a visit. I wouldn't choose a natural birth for myself.. I want just enough drugs to make myself comfortable but still be able to feel productive with my pushes.

Getting off track just slightly (sorry) but if you have a midwife does that automatically mean they do things "naturally"? I've been looking into a birthing center that is next to a local hospital and I believe most of the babies are actually born at the hospital. The website says they respect the decision to have an epidural (I am, no question!) but is everything else done naturally? (no monitoring, IV, etc)?

 

I'm going to give them a call but I don't want to seem like a big dummy going in there without evening knowing exactly what a midwife is for. In my mind, I always pictured them at home births. Oh, and do you pay for their services separate from your OB/GYN?

I agree.. home sales businesses are being hit pretty bad right now. I know personally I wouldn't have a party for fear of nobody coming.. or people coming and not spending money. I LOVE their candles.. I have boxes of them. They burn liquid and if you accidentally spill the wax, it won't burn you so great for families with kids/pets/clumsy husbands.

 

I would rather have the "security" of working someplace than relying on drumming up my own business and "investing" to begin. I do have a friend who's very successful at it and takes trips with her husband based on her sales but it's a full time job for her and takes her away evenings/weekends to hold parties.

Since this is really about your husband and his relationship with his family and not their lack of money or wanting to go.. I would consider it a gift to your future hubby.. try to leave the hard feelings out of it.

 

Positive spin.. a wonderful gift for your man and his peace of mind that I'm sure he appreciates greatly.

Congrats! He's just adorable! Glad to hear things went well.. maybe not as planned but as long as the two of you are healthy, that's all that matters!

Congrats! Your photos from Leigh are going to be sooo beautiful. I loved your hair.. I bet many girls will be using your photos as inspirations.