Not sure if u ladies have done this, but jus in case ya haven't, youtube has quite a few ceremony videos on Dreams, as well as other hotels.
I just typed in "Cabo weddings" in the search and a whole wack of vid's came up. Kinda interesting, you can kinda get an idea of what goes on.
And if u wanna have a good bawl session search author: "angelhuza" on youtube as well...Awesome videographer in Cabo, and shows alot of her vids.