Lindsey Davis

Does anyone ever do a "party" before leaving like a month ahead of time or so? We live out of state from all our family and most friends, so instead of trying to do a reception as soon as we get back and travel again back home... We were thinking try to head back home to get to see everyone that won't be able to make it to the wedding before?? I guess it's more of an engagement party? But trying to include everyone in something...