I agree, I decided to have a dinner for 18 set up in the garden, that way we have a private dinner for all of us (not in a restaurant where there is no privacy), but we're not doing the full out reception. Too much to plan for such a small group. (that is, if I can do that, I haven't heard back from my coordinator yet, but this is my plan) Congratulations to you and your upcoming nuptials!