Thanks :-) It wont let me open it via PM so ive sent you my private addy. Well my parents are fine with what ever we do... they have told us its our day and we have to do what we want. His parents on the other hand are the opposite nothing like my parents and dont even bother with him most of the time so not sure why they want to stick their nose in. It will be quite expensive for family n friends to come over from the UK so im only expecting our parents, my little sister, my grandparents and maybe about 4 close friends but to us that is fine...although there are a few more people i'd like to be there i understand they can't make it! So from now on its our day and we are doing what we want. I wish you could get everything sorted much sooner its driving me insane just waiting around. I want to get started on Save the Dates etc. Mellisa